Spreading Love Through Music: Interview with Lionel Cole

I recently had the pleasure of interviewing Lionel Cole, a jazz musician and all-around Creative. Son of Freddy Cole and nephew of Nat King Cole, Lionel’s musical talent was encouraged from a young age. Now, it’s his mission to spread love through music and encourage people to find their voice.

You can listen to the episode here.

Despite my best attempts at editing, there are some sound quality issues. Here is a transcript of our conversation you can read instead or along with the episode.

Erika:

Welcome to Creative Life, the podcast about consciously creating your unique and purposeful life through creativity and play. I’m your host, Erika Lewis, artist and Creative Life Coach. And together we’ll explore how to use art, habit change, and powerful shifts in perspective to cultivate wellness as individuals and communities.

Today, I’m excited to introduce my very first guest. Lionel Cole. Lionel Cole is a gifted and prolific artist in a variety of fields, including as an actor, martial artist, host for the radio show Center Stage, copywriter, television producer, Fulbright lecturer, and more. Out of all the things he’s done, in Lionel’s words, music is his bestie and is a language of love that he uses to inspire people to find their voice. He started young with his first professional show at six years old. He’s the lead singer of his band, has repeatedly toured with Mariah Carey as a pianist, and competed on The Voice Australia. Throughout his illustrious career he’s won and been nominated for many Grammys and Emmys, and he’s a longtime family friend.

Hi, Lionel. Thank you for being here today. So tell us, what have you been up to recently?

Lionel: Well, during the Christmas season all the way up to about the beginning of February, we were on tour for our last record by Lionel and the Swingers Club, With Love, and Cancel Christmas. Uh, it’s really cool. They both got Grammy consideration last year. And we’re, uh, you know, we’re just itty bitty independent label guys who think they can, like a little choo choo train. So we’ve done all right, and um, we’ve got a new one coming out on May the 1st, and we start back where you saw us, at 54 Below, on the 14th of May.

So things are going really well, I’m really excited about the new record, and I have you, and another one next week, I had one last week, people are all, they’re all saying hello, which is really quite nice. And I have a radio show myself on American Airlines and, uh, got to interview Allison Russell just the last couple of days from she is incredible. And it’s just wonderful to see you do your thing because I mean, I love radio. I love podcasting. I love what you do. So thank you for making time for me to be your number one.

Erika: Yeah, it’s very exciting. You got a lot of big things going on. What’s the process like of being nominated for a Grammy?

Lionel: Well, someone who knows you and is a governor or a voting member has to bring you to the table. And then everybody gets their five votes or whatever they are that each person has. And then there’s an initial cutoff. Uh, and then there’s a secondary cutoff, which is what we made it to, the consideration, and then the next one is nomination. So we’re hoping that this year’s record “Small Town, Vol. 1” one gets the nomination. That would be a coup and a good fun. You know, it’d be the first Grammy I would have won on my own. I’ve won on my arrangements already, but it’d be really cool.

Erika: Yeah you’ve won and been nominated for a bunch of projects that you worked on. So, I want to go back to the beginning. What were you like as a child?

Lionel: Um, I think some would say maybe a little pretentious. I haven’t changed much since I don’t mean to be a smart aleck, but it comes out.

Life is wondrous and funny, for the most part. Even if, you know, you’re crying wondrous tears of sadness, it’s pretty much amazing. And when I was a kid, I thought the same thing. So it was lots of, you know, ducking punches and trying to explain why I was so weird. So I’d go back and explain that to my piano and my drum set. And, you know, that became my link to myself. And, uh, so yeah, music was like, even though I had animals, music was like my, my bestie, no matter what happened, I could go down and talk about it at the piano and get it out. So yeah, the connections are quite deep.

I did my first professional show at six, you know, so finding a way to let the artists live while you’re being a performer is a very interesting task. But so far, the artist is still here, so I’m pretty excited about it.

Erika: Yeah, I was curious about that, about how your creativity, the thing that you loved from a young age, how does that change once it’s tied to your career and all those responsibilities?

Lionel:

I do music because I think it’s the best way to touch as many people as possible. Like, it’s really, it’s the space from which the language of love can be most easily understood. And so I’m open to wherever creativity blows me, working on a symphony and an opera, a soul record, a weird chill hop record, and then, you know, this Americana, whatever record that this is. And I just find if I let myself dream big within my own sphere of creation, then the world brings all these interesting things to, to a point.

I, I didn’t nominate myself for a Grammy. The drummer in the band was like, Hey man, you’re an idiot. I’m going to make my friend nominate you. So he nominated me. So I had to put the record out, you know creativity brings with it the movement of the universe as well. You know, Gerda said, you know, once you commit, all sorts of things in the universe come to aid and bear, and I think creativity is the same thing that if you, if you commit to a creative life, life will create ways to let you continue to do so.

Erika: So you’re co creating with the universe.

Lionel: Absolutely. Absolutely. Laughing on the ride, thinking I’m making choices, you know, because creativity doesn’t care. It’s just creating, right? Someone wants to explain creativity to me is this goddess dancing and spinning through the universe, right? And all she’s interested in is spinning through the universe. You know what I mean? And it’s up to us to kind of shape the beautiful hills and valleys of morality and acceptance that she leaves behind.

Image of a black silhouette of a dancer with a spinning blue and orange skirt created with a combination of Canva’s AI image generator and digital editing by Erika Lewis

I think it’s really important for us as artists to realize that whatever we come out with still comes from that true spark of creativity. Even if we’re singing someone else’s song, painting someone else’s picture, you know, it’s the creativity in us that is the impetus to even pick up the pen or to sit at the piano and smile, you know. We’re, we’re blessed and I think, you know, kind of marching orders forward when it comes to sharing creativity, you know, no matter what, and if you get paid for it, good for you. Yay! You win! You know, it’s it. And if someone wants you to do why a thousand times, you’re going to do it in your sleep and keep doing it. You win, you know, if you’re on the journey I’m on, which is, you know, every moment is, you know, some jazz riff in my head, you know, then you just see where you go, right? You just keep trying to connect.

Erika: So you described it, it’s like you’re open to the universe and the universe is, is giving you gifts and opportunities to create? Are there any, there been any points where it felt like that was closed off?

Lionel: Absolutely. Uh, I mean, I guess when I first made the movement to change, when I decided that I was going to actually be an active force and putting my creativity forward, I had this real dark moment of the soul. I just couldn’t see the goal. I couldn’t see even the reason, right? And I was really lucky. A dear friend who just kind of talked me off the ledge and reminded me, like, this is, this is the abyss that you rise in to reach the top of the mountain again. You know what I mean?

Image of a person looking up at a mountain made with a combination of graphics from Canva by Erika Lewis

If you sign up for the full experience, which I guess I did, I have to just cry until I can’t cry anymore and then realize I’m still here. And then write something about it, you know, if I’m being kind to myself, you know? So yeah, I don’t know. I hope that helps in your thought process with that.

Erika: Yeah, that makes sense. So when you’re going to your piano and talking to your piano about what’s going on, you’re, that’s a way for you to be kind to yourself. Is that what you’re saying?

Lionel: Yeah, like taking the time to stoke your own creative internal fire. That’s a really an inside out, you know, your performer is outside in the performer reaches into your artist and borrows the pieces that people likes them. The artist, you know, pretty much doesn’t pay attention to the performer unless he’s asked correctly or she’s asked correctly. Yeah. And if, if those two forces in you agree, then you can be doing it for the highest purpose. Which is to bring joy, spread love, and awareness.

Erika: Awareness of what specifically?

Lionel: I just, I think awareness of each other. You know, because the more we’re aware, the more we’re able to make less judgments. And more decision, you know, cause it’s okay to make a decision, you know, and it’s okay to judge. I mean, all of that’s fine. I just prefer to make decisions rather than judgments because that word is so heavy, you know? So paying attention, you know, really helps you, helps you pick the finer points that mean something to you.

Erika: In addition to, to all of your widely varied works from, from writing to singing to acting…I’ve lost track of my thought.

Lionel: You’re in the flow, man. Yeah. It’s, it has been really fun doing a lot of different things. You know, I, I got involved in the cannabis business, which was cool. And I own the, one of the only, actually the only collective in Los Angeles for a lot of years, uh, legal collectives and, you know, I started a few businesses.

I really believe in helping people find their voice, you know, like, whether that be their voice in business or their voice in song, their voice just to themselves, you know, I think that’s the one gift I can give most people that feels best to give and the wellspring is eternal.

So yeah, I, I think, I’m so curious I keep doing weird new things. I guess I’m a nerd at heart. What are you going to do?

Erika: Can you tell me about your work with Urban Gateways?

Lionel: Oh, wow. Okay. So Urban Gateways, and I’m here at Michael Kroll’s house right now, Michael Kroll and I came up…Michael came up with this really brilliant idea about teaching history through song and, uh, and he got me involved and we started doing something that we call “Talking Blues,” really chronicled the journey of slave master to slave across the great diaspora into America and the integration of the cultures, making the blues, the blues literally setting people free, right?

So, we started doing that with Urban Gateways when we were in Northwestern because we were so frustrated that there was no, you know, civic anything in the school. There was no, there was no geography. There was no history for these kids. So this program fit perfectly and teaching it in a song way expanded.

We did it for a lot of years. And then when I moved to Australia. I submitted it for a Fulbright and we got a Fulbright for it. And so I moved it all through Australia that way. And right now that same project from Urban Gateways is hopefully going to be curriculum at Duke Ellington High School in the next 18 months.

So it’s really exciting. You know, that work we did is kind of hopeful youth is still living and breathing and we’re still here smiling. You know, Michael started a bunch of non-profits, Michael Kroll. It’s amazing, just, yeah, it’s pretty intense. We just started our next, you know, non-profit organization, I have a thing for it.

I think collectives are the way that people move forward, that if you, if we think collectively then there’s time to think creatively, you know, because that’s the thing, you know, what’s the real key to creativity? Getting yourself away from attachments. You know, and some attachments are hard, like food and sleep, you know, so if you can have a breath, a break with those two, and then focus inward on that creative goddess, you know, anything, anything, the universe just will show right up for you, you know, or at least that’s the lesson.

Erika: Why do you think it’s so important, for kids especially, to have access to programs like these?

Lionel: Well, I think that having an alternate history source, one that’s really based on truth, not based on some sort of group grade curriculum is better for a kid because then a kid actually gets the spark of how to learn.

At the end of our little curriculum, we teach kids how to write their own blues song, you know, and you can imagine how that translates now in the modern world with kids wanting to write their own raps. And, you know, we encourage all of it, you know, like, learn the history. And then speak about what it makes you feel, you know, what have you learned, you know, what are the call and response techniques that you can use to practice something, but it’s, you know, it’s, you know, it’s a little, it’s like, it’s like giving them a little psychological lock pick key, you know, because it can, you know, anything you learn in this kind of, you know, musical around the campfire way, you want to, you want to pass on, and that’s the oldest, most sacred way to be creative is to sit around the fire, right? Share stories. Or as they say in Australia, “yarning.”

Erika: Yeah. Experiencing art in community changes the experience. And so you were in Up With People. That’s how I know you. My mom was the lead drummer in your cast. Can you tell the audience about what that was like?

Picture of Up With People performance in 1986 (cast 86C) with arrows pointing to Lionel Cole singing in center and Emily Lewis on drums in back right.

Lionel: Well, I mean, that was like the 80s, right? And, you know, it was a big deal, you know, have a black guy up front, have a girl playing drums. Like, we were the cast that they took a lot of chances on. You know, your mom is super powerful, right? And I, it was cool watching her trust herself and, you know, encouraged everybody in the band to trust ourselves a little bit more. You know, of course I took that to the furthest inch I could take, I trusted myself to make the music in my head, which got me in trouble a lot. You know, that’s okay. It was, it was worth it, you know, ’cause I think, uh, everybody pulls for the underdogs to make it sound amazing.

Erika: Yeah. From the stories I’ve heard, my mom was a bit of a troublemaker there too.

Lionel: Oh yeah. Just a little bit. Oh yeah. She was definitely a rockstar drummer.

Erika: She would like to hear you say that.

So you, you traveled with this, this group of young adults around the world for a year, playing music and staying with host families and volunteering. What was that sense of community like?

Lionel: It feels a lot like now. I mean, my, this whole last tour, I stayed with host families and, you know, did whatever was to be done in the community that they were into, went to places that they went and introduced myself.

I think civic responsibility should be mandatory, you know, whether you do military, Peace Corps, people, you know, join the local library task force. I think having to work in communities, and then having the ability to live in a family in a community that’s not your own just changes your perspective on it gives you such a greater appreciation of small details and how much they can mean.

I just remember having that moment of Western first world problems like, what do you mean you’re giving me all the food you have to eat tonight? You know, “no, come share with me!” and actually sitting back and seeing the look on their face of horror. You know, that I, I wouldn’t take any of the food and the joy inside, like, even though you, you want to share having to honor people’s cultural space, you know, and be blessed by, okay, you know, I want to out-nice this, but actually this is what’s necessary, you know, and that’s a very humbling lesson.

We, as first-worlders, we think we can solve everything. Sometimes we’re just supposed to accept what the universe gives us and be grateful for it. So that’s what really stuck with me, sticks with me now.

Erika: Yeah, and I think living with other people or getting close to people with different backgrounds from you really opens up your ability to take on different perspectives and remember, just because I’m used to living this way doesn’t mean it’s the only way. There’s so many possibilities on how we can create our lives. We get to decide what it’s going to look like. I mean, we co create it with our communities.

Lionel: Yes, we do. You know, well, it’s triune, right? It’s the universe, others, and us. You know, and where we sit in that polarity is always shifting, you know, where we are, the more we do when we’re, Oh, wow, I’m sitting in the negative polarity, make sure it points that way. So we get back towards the positive. It’s pretty exciting when you decide to take a first person view.

Erika: So speaking of community, tell me about how you’re raised. How did your family influence you and teach you about how to live creatively?

Lionel: Well, I mean, I think it was sort of expected of me. You know, our family is, comes from a pretty powerful place, you know. Nat was the first black man on television, the first black man on, you know, commercial radio. I remember being the first black guy in a lot of towns on the road, you know, some 45 years later, right?

Erika: *speaking to the audience* That’s Nat King Cole, Lionel’s uncle. (Correction: Nat King Cole led the first black musicians to have their own sponsored program “King Cole Trio Time” on the radio in 1948 and was the first black man to host a nationally broadcasted variety show “The Nat King Cole Show” in 1956.)

Lionel: So my family experience has taught me to light a flame for a radical garden of creativity. Like I, I just, I want, I want to be that safe space where the soft part of everyone can understand, you know, and the hard part of everyone can stand down for a moment and feel the embrace of all of us, right?

Because if we’re talking about love, like love is my organizing factor, so. Love is meant to multiply, right? It doubles itself every time you share it with someone, right? Because, you know, to share love is like twice love, you know? To share pain is like half the pain, right? So it’s like, if you’re open and you’re sharing, you know, both ways, it just becomes this beautiful…I don’t know…magic carpet ride, you know? You got a little bit of control, but the magic’s doing its thing.

Erika: Yeah, that’s beautiful. Other than music, what other forms of creativity have been a part of your life?

Lionel: Well, there was a time that I was an actor. You know, and I guess every, every decade or so I get another shot at it. So, it’s about, I guess I’m about due for something about now and I love that practice. I love studying it. It’s amazing. I’ve been a martial artist a lot of years. And I think that’s an amazing art. I was a copywriter for a little while in Chicago, a television producer for a little while. Um, you know, I ran bars and clubs and stuff for a little while. I think everything involved in true hospitality, I’ve probably done a little time in, from washing dishes to Radio City Music Hall.

So, I figure it’s only one chance around. So, I just try to learn as much as I can, you know. ‘Cause there’s, there’s creativity in the Zen of washing dishes. ‘Cause if you’re in the Zen, then you’re not thinking of your hands. You’re not thinking of the heat. You just be, the dishes wash themselves and it can, it can be very easy.

Erika: When do you know that it’s time to move on to the next creative venture?

Lionel: Um, probably when the cops come to escort you out the door. You know, I, I think, I think I’m getting a better sense of the difference between people’s heavenly dreams and divine proportions, you know, because I tend to think that someone’s dream is worth standing for, and, but I might dream it harder than them.

So I’m finally learning to let people, to let people, you know, not, not to push people beyond their boundaries unless they’ve actually asked me to. You know, because it’s, it’s inferred if you’re listening to me or playing music with me, I’m going to push you, you know, and as I do anything, I do everything.

So I say I won’t push, but I, I can see the beauty in everybody. So clearly every now and then I just got to give it a little shove, like, “Hey, Hey, here’s a little love, this side, look, look, look.” You know, I got to admit it. I love giving a little extra shot of love.

Erika: Okay. So what I’m hearing you saying is it’s so important to you to share the love and amplify people’s voices that sometimes you might get a little over-enthusiastic?

Lionel: Yeah, well, I think, I, I’ve, I’ve learned that like my excitement for other people’s growth is sometimes greater than theirs. Right? And I don’t think you can go wrong with putting too much love on something, but that what happens is, I think sometimes what goes wrong is our idea that that relationship or that situation is forever. You know, it’s like, because things that are forever, there’s no pressure you’re going to put on it that’s ever going to break. You know, something’s got broken because you lovingly put something on it. Well, it’s probably the season, like you said, time for, to take your creativity and move on, right?

You know, like if they say they’ve had enough, they probably have had enough, you know? And most people say they’ve had enough long before they’re full. They start to think about the next thing as opposed to being in the moment of like, right now this is tasty. Like, you know, and I love being in the moment. So, but yeah, every now, I think every now and then for normal humans, I might be a little bit pushy with the love, but shoot me, you know, I don’t mind.

Erika: Yeah. As a coach and seeing people’s capacity for growth and healing, I can get excited too, but people will only change as much as they’re ready to change.

Lionel: Truth. Truth. Despite the product, you know, but I hope that like, you know, peak experiences really move people and being willing to be collateral damage in someone else’s story because I’m so unattached that I can, or at least try to be unattached enough where I can learn the lessons of loving something that’s not for me, you know, it helps makes it easier.

It makes it easier for me to continue to give the magic that’s learnable, you know, and people who aren’t ready to learn a chance to walk out before, you know, it walks into them, you know, cause my door is wide open. If you put yourself in the lens of my door, you’re going to see yourself, you can’t unsee that. And a lot of people weren’t quite, aren’t quite ready to see that. I think you see that in your work.

Erika: Yes. We’re all mirrors of each other and when someone else triggers us, it’s probably because it has something to do with what’s inside us that maybe we haven’t fully accepted. And with your powerful music, it’s all very, very story oriented and moving, and there’s always a message and sometimes people aren’t ready to hear the truth.

Lionel: Yes, it’s true. Being on the vanguard is not for the faint heart, you know, but I realize, uh, for me, the gift of creation is a gift that I’m bound to give. It’s a plague stuck upon me that I must share. And, and I’m grateful for it, I’m grateful for the lessons I keep getting to learn in humility and acceptance because it sure does, it sure does fill the hole of loneliness.

Erika: Can you expand on that? What fills the hole of loneliness?

Lionel: Well, learning, being open to the universe, teaching you what it has to teach you, especially in times of trouble. There’s like some sort of weird, super secret door to a higher level, a boss level up. If you can just walk through the open door that isn’t, whatever chains that bound you to the cycle that makes you realize you’re back at an open door. You know, how many people are stuck and things that happen to them? Before they turn ten, it takes a long time to realize there’s a door just right there and all you have to do is reach out and get it. So yeah, it’s, It’s, I guess in some ways, to make an elegant riddle is to make small time people discovering their own way to themselves, something to read on the walk, because you’re only going to get there when you get there.

Erika: Speaking of discovering yourself, how well do you feel like you know yourself at this point in your life and career?

Lionel: I know myself well enough to trust. And when I don’t, when I don’t trust, I know myself well enough to shut up, go to sleep or keep stepping in the path that I chose. I think fear and I have become friends. I don’t let fear drive the car anymore, but I don’t ignore what he has to say. He’s just another pal in the car. That’s, that’s a good feeling. Cause I think most of us are driven by fear most of our lives and small fears that really aren’t that big of deal, like status or money. You know what I mean? There, those are small things, you know, just the breath! How ’bout that? That’s, that’s worth feeling awesome about, like, you know, just getting it to a simple space in the brain, that’s all for me and everybody around me. That’s why I sing, you know, it doesn’t matter what the words are. I’m just saying, I love you. I’m just saying it over and over and over again in everything I do, that’s anyway, whatever, it’s not cool to be a nerd of love anymore, but you know, nerds have their revenge.

Erika: Speaking of fear, you’ve, I’m sure had to put yourself out there a lot of times over your career and you’ve been on big stages in the spotlight as sold out shows with Mariah Carey and at The Voice. Do you ever get stage fright?

Lionel: I think stage fright and I made a deal, and I made a decision that the butterflies in my stomach weren’t fear, they were excitement. And since then I feel it. And I feel it as potential energy. It just, it’s almost like, “Oh, cool. We’re going to have that kind of show!” You know? ‘Cause oftentimes it’s like, if I’m open enough, I’m just walking into the energy of the room and then trying to whirl it in a circle, you know what I mean? Like, it doesn’t matter what my set list is most of the time, you know, this, this tour, I’m being very intentional, you know, and have something to say and something that I want to offer, you know? So. The room will have to read more of me than me reading it. Um, it’s a very scary, artistic place to be, but I’m really, really excited.

Erika: What’s the intention of this show?

Lionel: Oh, to not underestimate oneself truly, you know, to, to wag the dog as much as possible, rewrite our history in a way that isn’t advantageous, but that is actually supportive of ourselves. ‘Cause if we’re here talking about it, no matter what you and I have been through, we kicked his butt. We’re here talking about it. Like no matter what we’ve been through, if we can have a conversation, that means we were the winner. But that’s, that’s the reclamation project.

Erika: That’s beautiful.

Lionel: Thank you.

Erika: So some people call you the kilted crooner because of your iconic kilt. What led to that fashion choice?

Lionel: Well, um, I was married to a McCulloch and we were in Scotland. And I had just learned that the Tartan had come to Scotland via Hannibal because I just read Hannibal Crosses the Alps. And I thought, man, it would be really cool if, you know, brown people remembered that the kilt came from here. Not brown people realize their African roots were so deep. And I was playing with Mariah Carey and I was like, all right, I’m going to get a hunting ross and I’m going to wear it on stage, and then tell everybody the truth when I get my chance. And, uh, I did, and Mariah even sings about it. It’s the intro at Glastonbury. She’s like,  🎶 “Mr. Lionel Cole and his cute little kilt.”  🎶 Right? 2001. And, and it’s, I haven’t stopped since.

I just, I love making people take a second and question, you know? Like question their bias, I guess, because instead of confronting them, here’s this affable question, you know, I’m happy to historically, emotionally, or spiritually speak about why I feel good without any pants on. Most guys, they don’t know. This is beautiful. It’s amazing. Freedom is amazing because it frees your mind, actually.

Erika: I think fashion is such an important way to express ourselves and, you know, someone takes one look at you and I think they get a pretty good idea that they, you’re comfortable boldly being yourself and, and that makes a powerful statement and confronts people with, am I choosing to do the same?

Lionel: It’s true. Well, isn’t that our, our, our, I mean, that’s like part of the mandate of being an awake human as opposed to a woke human, awake. You want them to think something. You know, you want every person to think something just because we all spend so much time in our own brain shed thinking about what we did wrong.

You know, if we can just get one little flicker of outside light, if I can be that burst of light through the windshield for a second and I’ve done my gig, you know, if they get the courage then to ask a question, no matter how, you know, snarky, you know, that’s, that’s pretty brave. I welcome all comers, you know, so.

Yeah, I don’t know…I’m here to inspire. I DO know. I’m here to inspire. That’s my whole goal. You know, always has been. My mom used to say, “Lionel, you have this giant brain, you could be anything. Honey, be a doctor, be a lawyer.” And I still say the same thing as I did at eight. It’s like, “Mom, you know, you can only touch so many people as a lawyer, a doctor, but with music, you can touch the whole world.” So, yeah, I’m here to inspire. That’s my choice, you know?

Erika: Yeah. Thank you for giving the gift of your creativity to the world. If you could leave the audience with one message, what would it be for someone who might be more timid in their, their artistic endeavors?

Lionel: I would say you must find your voice and sing it in your key, no matter how monotonous it is, you know, and hopefully you will meet other people who harmonize with you, and to take each of those moments as the beautiful moment in your life, and stack them in your card deck because those moments are forever and they can always heal you or someone and you don’t need a whole lot of them to be a creature that generates healing unto itself. So take care of the present moment, put as much love into it as possible. And don’t worry where it lands.

Erika: Thank you. That’s beautiful. Where, where can the audience find you?

Lionel: There’s lionelandtheswingersclub.com for last year’s records. This, this year will be lionelcolemusic.com and the record Small Town, Vol. 1, and that’s out May 1st. The first gig about that is 54 below on the 14th of May. And then the next month at The Velvet Note in Atlanta, the 20th and 21st. So, you know, just making our way back through the country and hopefully we’ll get to see everybody for a minute or two out there as we’re doing.

Erika: Yeah, thank you so much for joining me today, Lionel.

Lionel: You know, I’m, I’m really pleased you asked me. It, it touches me because we’re a family because we’re family and your mom’s my family. So it means a lot to be the uncle you trusted enough to start.

Erika: I thought maybe you’d be too busy traveling the world, but you’ve been very gracious and I wanted you on here because I’ve heard you talk about the importance and beauty of music and art and, and that’s really the message that I want to spread too. We are all creative beings. It, it hurts me when I hear people say, I’m not creative. It’s just not true. We all have that. We can all cultivate more of it. And when we cultivate it, there’s, there’s more love, there’s more community and more beauty in the world. So thank you for, for being a part of that beauty in the world.

Lionel: I’m just the mirror. I’m glad you can see your reflection.

Erika: Thank you, Lionel, for being here today and sharing your wisdom. And thank you to my listeners for supporting the show as always, please like subscribe and review so more people can benefit from creative life. I want to hear from you. How has creativity affected your life? Email me at embodiedlifecreation@gmail.com and we can share your story on this podcast or blog post. Thank you.

Living an Embodied Life

What is your relationship to your body like? 

How long does it take for you to notice what it needs? 

There are so many distractions around us with modern technology. It’s easy to get so absorbed in them that we lose awareness of our body’s signals. Or we might purposely distract ourselves to avoid those signals. 

I used to have stomach aches everyday. Doctors said my tests looked normal. I tried many things that didn’t help. It seemed like nothing would…except distraction. I found I could get so lost in tv that I wouldn’t be aware of the discomfort for a period of time. This developed into a habit at a young age. It’s still tempting to lose myself in tv in the face of discomfort, whether physical or emotional.

In our modern society, there is often a divide between mind and body. There is the pressure to perform in academics and career, prioritizing productivity and external measures of “success”. This comes first for most of us. When we are busy with this, maintaining a healthy relationship with our bodies quickly goes to the bottom of the to-do list. 

And when we do find time and energy to invest in our health, the societal pressure is focused on looking “good” (by conventional beauty standards) not feeling good. And there is no shortage of health and fitness experts telling us exactly what to do. When taking this advice as instructions to follow closely, you might lose weight, you might gain muscle, and you also might alienate yourself from your body even more or even physically harm it.

Often instructions for how to be healthy involve pushing through with pure willpower even if your body is saying something else. Many diets prescribe a limited amount of calories to eat, regardless of how hungry you are. Intense workout routines might push you to ignore your burning muscles to the point of overexertion. These prescriptive, rule-based routines that are supposed to be healthy ironically have the potential to move you further away from a healthy relationship with your body because they are missing one key part, body awareness.

That’s why, as a coach, I consistently remind my clients to check in with their bodies. This is not about avoiding anything that feels unpleasant. In fact, it’s important to face discomfort. It’s good to push yourself past your comfort zone, little by little. That’s how we grow and get stronger. AND as we do this, it’s important to listen to our bodies’ cues. 

Is this uncomfortable or is this painful?

Is this helpful or is this harmful?

It is also true that things don’t always need to be uncomfortable and challenging to be healthy. You can eat healthy food that tastes good. You can move in an enjoyable way that strengthens your body. 

This week’s episode of Creative Life is all about Embodied Practices. These practices can do far more than change the number on the scale. 

Embodiment means being present and aware in your body. It involves listening to your body’s signals, moving in enjoyable ways, and releasing stuck emotions through practices like mindful dance, stretching, singing, and more. 

Practicing body-awareness has numerous benefits including:

Improved emotional regulation and processing challenging emotions

Heightened intuition 

Increased awareness of your body’s needs

Greater ease in taking aligned action toward your goals

Improved physical health and pain relief

Greater sense of grounding and presence

Expanded self-awareness, self-love, and self-trust

Listen to this week’s episode of Creative Life, to explore the benefits of embodiment practices and learn actionable tips for creating an embodied routine personalized to your needs. There’s even a guided exercise to get you started. 

Your body has a lot to say to you. When you develop a trusting relationship with it, when you work together rather than fighting against it, what might change for you? 

On February 24th at 11am Eastern, I’m hosting a free workshop on creating an embodied morning routine aligned with your needs. 

Starting your day with mindfulness, movement, and self-care sets you up for success. In this workshop, you’ll assess your current routine and explore practices to make it more nourishing and attuned to your mind-body wisdom.

The result will be a customized morning flow leaving you focused, energized, and grounded. Save your seat for the workshop here to create your perfect embodied morning routine.

In addition to checking out my podcast and workshop, you can also schedule a free call here for a taste of what creative life coaching can do for you.

Signing Off,

Erika Lewis

Creative Life Coach

Unlocking Your Inner Creativity: The Power of Intuitive Art

The latest episode of the Creative Life podcast, is an exploration into the world of intuitive art—what it is, why it matters, and how it can be a transformative force in consciously creating your life. Intuitive art is an accessible, healing practice anyone can try. 

Overcoming Creative Resistance

First, let’s address a common roadblock. Many people believe they lack creativity or worry they will be bad at it. (Even though it’s arguable that “bad” art exists IMO.)The truth is, creativity is inherent in us all. 

Even if you think you’re “not creative,” intuitive art can help you express emotions, gain self-awareness, reduce stress, and listen to the wisdom of your body.  It’s not about creating something aesthetically pleasing; it’s about using art as a language to express and release emotions. It’s about the process, not the end product. 

Who Is Intuitive Art For?

You might be wondering if intuitive art is right for you. The answer is a resounding yes, whether you’re  battling perfectionism, seeking to cultivate creativity, or simply wanting to feel more connected to yourself or the divine. It’s a powerful tool for if you’re looking to gain clarity on life direction or process past experiences, it serves as a powerful tool for self-exploration. Intuitive art is for those. It’s an invitation to tap into your intuition, trust yourself, and strengthen the mind-body connection.

Getting Started

If you’re intrigued and ready to try intuitive art out, here’s a simple guide. Choose a medium that feels free-flowing, like paints or watercolor pastels. Let go of expectations, pick up your chosen tool, and start creating. Whether you focus on a specific question, meditate on your future self, or simply let your impulses guide you, the process is about trusting yourself and allowing your intuition to unfold.

Here’s one example, but there are infinite possibilities.

If you’re ready to unlock your inner artist, give this episode a listen here for more details. You’ll come away feeling inspired to grab some paints or crayons and see what wants to come out. No art experience required – just an openness to create and explore.

Have you tried intuitive art before? Share your experiences in the comments below!

Also, mark your calendars for an upcoming webinar on consciously creating your morning routine. It’s happening on February 24th at 11 a.m. Eastern time. Save your spot here

Evaluate Your Progress With Curiosity

 

Frequent, non-judgmental check-ins are crucial for turning new behaviors into lasting change. Self-evaluation allows you to reflect on what’s working, what could improve, and how you’ve changed. 

That’s why in the latest podcast episode of Creative Life, I dive into the 5th and final step of the Creative Life Process – Evaluating Your Progress. 

If you’re looking for clarity on what is and is not working for you, give this episode a listen! It was designed to help you evaluate your progress with self-love, not self-judgment. 

Be compassionate with yourself. Progress isn’t linear. 

Improvement comes through readjusting approaches, not getting everything perfect immediately.

Some Key Questions to Ask

Which new behaviors have been working well for me? Which haven’t?

What were some unexpected challenges or benefits since last check-in?

How did celebrating progress affect my motivation and consistency?

Are my goals and metrics still aligned with my values? Do I need to adjust them?

Am I being compassionate with myself through ups and downs?

What resources or support could make the process easier? 

Check out the full episode here for more.

I want to hear from you.

What’s a habit you have that works well for you? How are you measuring that success?

Join me for a free upcoming live webinar on Morning Routines.

Here we’ll brainstorm and develop a routine that is right for your unique needs. When you start each day feeling grounded, energized, and inspired, your whole life can go more smoothly. It’s happening February 24th at 11am Eastern Time. Save your spot here

If you’d prefer to talk to me one-on-one, schedule a free coaching session here

Signing off,

Erika Lewis

Creative Life Coach 

Celebrate Yourself – You Deserve It!

Do you minimize your wins and dwell on what’s not yet achieved? It’s so easy to dismiss our progress and think we don’t deserve joy until some big end goal is met. The latest episode of Creative Life challenges that script! 

Celebrating even tiny steps fuels motivation, self-worth and optimism. We must treat ourselves as worthy of celebrating before our minds believe it.

Why?

Celebrating affirms you deserve joy now, not just at some finish line.

Acknowledging progress keeps you committed to growth. It’s positive reinforcement to keep going.

Actively seeking silver linings shifts your focus from negative to positive.

Over time, regularly celebrating can transform disempowering beliefs into empowering ones.

Check out the latest episode of Creative Life here for more details about the benefits of celebrating, ideas for how to celebrate, and some musings on the topic of moral neutrality.

And 1 more thing!

Join me for a free webinar on developing a morning routine that suits your unique needs! It’s happening February 24th at 11 am. Save your spot here!

Can’t wait to see you there!

Erika Lewis

Creative Life Coach

Falling into the Unknown

Making art is my absolute favorite tool to use in consciously creating my life. It helps me understand myself better.

Recently, my therapist guided me through a “music and imagery” session. First we talked about what I wanted to focus on. Then we found a song that felt right. She guided me in a brief meditation, and played the song on repeat while I used my watercolor pastels and pens to create whatever came up until it felt complete. 

Here’s the result.

That’s me in the center. As I am falling, I am growing wings. There’s a great big thought bubble, busy with ideas. The purple surrounding me represents the unknown as well as my intuition.

The wings do not mean I am becoming angelic. It doesn’t mean in the future I will be immune to gravity. I will still be falling into the unknown, but perhaps it will feel more and more like hang gliding. There will still be risk, but as my “wings” get bigger, as my toolkit expands, as my awareness of what is and is not in my control grows, I will navigate the sky with more confidence and exhilaration and less panic. 

This image doesn’t only represent me, but a universal experience.

We are all falling into the unknown.

Depending on perspective, that can be scary, or exhilarating, or both. We are falling forward in time. We are learning and growing as we fall. We may try to construct a sense of certainty, but in reality there is a lot we don’t know and can’t control. AND that is neither good nor bad. It is simply reality. 

This week’s podcast episode is about Consciously Creating new habits, experiences, and beliefs. With all the stress and uncertainty in daily life, it’s easy to keep doing what is most familiar. It’s easy to be reactionary, putting out fires with quick fixes. But what if, through developing self-awareness, some of those fires could be prevented?

What if instead of panicking as we fall into an uncertain future, we learn to glide?

This change doesn’t happen overnight. It takes persistence. It takes experimentation. It takes self-compassion, rest, community…

You have everything you need to consciously create your life, to fall in the direction you want to go, AND it’s a lot less scary with support. 

Listen to Step 3 of the Creative Life Process here to learn more about how to consciously create your life.

The Power of Asking “Why?” Reflecting on Where You Are Now

We’re in a new year, and many of us have committed to doing things differently in 2024. Whether you’ve chosen New Year’s Resolutions or not, in order to set yourself up for success, it’s important to figure out why you haven’t been doing those new things already. 

Here’s the thing – to make real changes, you need to understand why you’re where you’re at in the first place. Get to the root, ya know? That’s what my latest podcast episode is all about. 

Together, we explore questions like:

  • How are my current habits and choices serving me?
    • What are the positive intentions of the ones no longer serving me?
  • What self-limiting beliefs might be keeping me “stuck” or playing small? 
  • How much responsibility do I take on – too much or too little? 
  • What external factors influence my situation? What is and is not in my control?

Asking “why” with compassion exposes the truth about where we are now. It’s challenging but powerful. Getting radically honest about our circumstances is required before creating real change.

Remember – your past does not have to define your future. You can consciously choose to create something new starting today.  

Tune into this episode below if you’re ready to understand where you are now in order to get where you want to be. Let’s consciously create our future together. 

Erika Lewis

Creative Life Coach

The Power of Imagination

Imagine you go on a road trip. You want to get there as fast as possible, but you haven’t picked the destination. And now you don’t know which direction to go. So you either stay in one place and think about how you’d don’t want to be where you are, or you wander around aimlessly. If getting there as quickly as possible is your goal, having a clear destination helps significantly.   

Now, life is all about the journey. The destination I’m referring to here is not a point at which you’ve achieved the perfect life and then you live happily ever after. It’s more of a level-up, an achievement, an area you’ve grown. Your chosen “destination” may be something externally measurable such as a career goal, or it might be something internal like learning to love yourself. 

So how do you choose your destination? (Don’t worry. You can always pick a new one)

That’s where imagination comes in. Picture your future self. They are experiencing exactly what you want to be experiencing right now. What are they doing? Who are they being? 

My latest podcast episode offers a guided visualization designed to tap into our senses and emotions to envision the people we aspire to become. 

First we discuss why this practice matters – how our brains are wired to zero in on threats, which can prevent us from pursuing growth or even admitting what we most desire. But by imagining our desired future, we gain clarity, hope, and motivation to take steps towards that vision. 

After a quick mindful breathing exercise to become fully relaxed and present, I lead listeners through questions to identify and visualize their biggest dreams and the benefits of achieving them. Then we fully embody our future selves who already live those dreams using all five senses. 

Trust me, even taking a few moments to embody our aspirations creates powerful momentum. It’s a practice I use in my personal life and coaching sessions too because it works!

I’d love for you to tune into this episode if you’re seeking more direction and motivation. And please share with anyone you know who might be inspired to imagine their way to their desired future too. Visualizing the future we wish to create is the first step on the path to making it a reality.

You can find the episode here

Let me know your biggest takeaways!

Interested in additional visualization techniques to imagine your desired future? Let me know!

Erika Lewis

Creative Life Coach

Finding Your Own Colorful Path When Life Feels Gray: The Creative Life Process

Do you ever feel like you’re just going through the motions?

Like you’re doing what is expected of you rather than what truly nourishes you?

It’s easy to get so lost in repeating familiar habits that we lose sight of our wants and needs. It can take some serious exploration to uncover what direction our inner compass is pointing.

In this week’s episode of Creative Life, I describe how I developed the Creative Life Process through my own personal challenges.  I exhausted myself trying to meet societal standards, which led to a vicious cycle of burnout and depression.

After a long, hard road, I finally had a breakthrough.

Something had to CHANGE.

I was done waiting to be saved. I was sick and tired of trying to do the long list of things experts said would help with minimal results. I needed to start listening to ME. 

So I started experimenting. I began to tune into my inner wisdom. I got curious about what was actually working for me. And I let go of the rest. I started actively creating a colorful path aligned with my dreams.

Here are the 5 steps of the “Creative Life Process” that helped me redesign my life.

Creative Life Process

1: Imagine your desired future.

2: Get curious about your current state.

3: Create new behaviors.

4: Celebrate your progress.

5: Evaluate the changes.

You can listen to the full episode here for more details on each step.

If you’re interested in more personalized guidance to bring color back into your life using the Creative Life Vision Process, you can schedule a free Creative Life Visioning Session here.

Warm regards,

Erika Lewis

Creative Life Coach

Exciting News! The First Episode of Creative Life Just Released!


Hello everyone!

I’m so excited to invite you to tune into my new podcast, Creative Life. The very first episode was released this morning! You can find it on all major podcast platforms (except for Apple podcasts temporarily).

Creative Life is a podcast all about consciously crafting our unique and purposeful lives through creativity and play. Here, we will explore how to use art, habit change, and powerful shifts in perspective to cultivate wellness as individuals and communities. 

Too often we get stuck going through the motions, repeating familiar routines even when they no longer serve us. Creativity provides a way out of the monotony, providing more fun and also providing better solutions to our challenges.

In our first episode together, I open up about my own journey of losing touch with self-expression growing up, the depression that followed, and the creative shifts that helped me reconnect with my voice. My story is a testament to the healing power of creativity.

And there’s evidence this goes far beyond just my experience! Beyond the personal anecdotes, I break down research on how embracing everyday creativity reduces stress, boosts mood, enhances focus and brings more meaning and connection into our lives. This isn’t just about making something that looks pretty either. It’s about shifting our mindset to inhabit each moment. It’s about experimenting, trying new things, figuring out what works best for us as unique individuals.

Check out the podcast link here below to learn more about the healing power of creativity.

Erika Lewis

Creative Life Coach